Indeed. Facebook has the filtered posts but has your real name and face attached to it so NO. Everywhere else has the lack of privacy and you feel more like you're performing than actually talking to anyone.

Still. Your posts are helping me forgive Tumblrites for being... well. The site they/we are on encourages the worst of fandom, not the best. Doesn't excuse the excesses and abuses, but the worst offenders would either learn to behave or not be able to do as much harm on a more humane platform.