modern social media sucks for fandom
Jun. 21st, 2021 06:43 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Sometimes you just need to make a bulleted list.
- all posts are public, leading to epic levels of wank
- people reply at different points in the conversation, also leading to wank but more importantly, obscuring parts of the conversation and also making the full conversation only viewable to the initial poster
- sharing anything automatically shares it with everyone you know on that platform because you can't have subgroups for your content unless you make multiple accounts
- real fucking names
- constantly changing usernames (looking at you tumblr) makes it impossible to know who you're even following/who's following you. it also makes it hard to keep track of friends
- platforms are maximized for "engagement" not for community, so it's all about getting the likes and shares and who cares about deep diving anything
- priority is mostly given to short form content which makes nuance difficult
- everything moves so fast that it's difficult to have a follow up conversation on anything you post because people can't find the initial thought
- everything is presented without the context of the posts that came before and after them - especially on sites that don't give you a date/timestamp
- tags are communal rather than personal, so you never really know what you'll find in there. Everyone wants to organize their own space, but the items they put in their containers might be something you're allergic to (to stretch a metaphor)
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Date: 2021-06-22 03:55 am (UTC)The speed also discourages you from taking time to think before you reply. "Am I being rude? Am I understanding OP's points correctly? Am I making my point clearly?" All of those considerations go out the window because if you don't reply immediately, your reply might not get read, or you might not be able to find the conversation again later, or you might look like a creepy stalker for interacting with an old post.
I love Twitter, but for livetweeting, not meta. Tumblr is sort of okay for meta, but I hate when the point I agree with is a reblog of something I vehemently disagree with, or even don't fully agree with -- I don't like having to give more visibility to the part I disagree with/the part that's wrong in order to spread the part I think is worthwhile.
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Date: 2021-06-23 05:46 am (UTC)I actively use the drafts feature on tumblr and this is still true. And it gets worse when you see something but the page refreshes and you haven't even had time to process it and your reaction to it and you're already seeing something else.
You've got a great point about that speed also leading to harsher interactions. Not only is there no space and no time but people are also under pressure not to say the same point as someone else and be labelled a copycat or wait too long and the conversation has moved past what you want to say.
I only use twitter for animal crossing screenshots XD but the tumblr thing, oof. I feel that. I'm at the point now where I just make a fresh post with whatever point or counterpoint I want to make because I don't want to spread the horrible idea, but then I either have to be careful about including context or I have to deliberate exclude context. More often than not, I choose the latter and I think that's to the detriment of the broader conversation.
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Date: 2021-06-22 05:12 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2021-06-23 05:47 am (UTC)I can see a future where I eventually post here more than over there. I don't need notes and reblogs. I need other people, as few or as many want to hang out.
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Date: 2021-06-22 07:51 am (UTC)Like, in theory just as many people could be reading and listening here on DW... but I think that comes with more awareness that you are lurking, this isn't your space. And there's nothing for you to "win" here - you can't make yourself look good by reblogging/retweeting interesting content or by disagreeing outrageously with a Bad Take (which may be genuinely bad, or maybe just too easy to take in bad faith.)
And there's nothing to "win" in terms of engagement here either. There's no like or anything. If people want to interact, they have to pause and write some thoughts - and there's no internet points to win there either, just a quality connection.
Haha, I think I was going somewhere with this but I didn't sleep well and I have to scoot off to a meeting now 😂 I'm having a lot of thoughts about this too, and appreciate having yours to add to the murky pond swirling at the back of my mind as well.
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Date: 2021-06-22 01:01 pm (UTC)I always feel nervous when posting my opinion too, because I'm worried about discourse, even if it doesn't happen much anymore on tumblr.
I think it might just be the general vibes/culture? Or my anxiety lmao
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Date: 2021-06-22 09:39 am (UTC)I still don't get how fandom is on Twitter. It seems so much less built for it than tumblr is. I still only use it for movie news lol.
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Date: 2021-06-22 04:53 pm (UTC)But then no one tags anything and you've got The Algorithm shoving stuff in people's face that they don't want to see, so they decide that whatever ship or whatever it is shouldn't exist at all since they can't otherwise escape it and that's how things can spiral down scarily quick.
Would love to find more chill communities here on Dreamwidth!
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Date: 2021-06-22 04:11 pm (UTC)The metric of success (and design) being "engagement" is ABSOLUTELY a huge deal. It removes so much nuance or in-depth exploration, because getting notes/shares/retweets/likes/whatever is easier done with something short and emotional, which isn't great for a lot of complicated topics.
Also, algorithms can fuck far, far off. I want options to find new content and people and groups... on my terms and when I'm interested. Not when a site decides a person/page/group has paid enough to show up on my feed.
The way things like tumblr (and maybe twitter, idk, I've never figured it out) work with people engaging with different parts of a convo is REALLY hard for community. I don't know that I'd thought about that particular thing (a particular reblog chain taking off, even if it misses some really interesting and insightful parts of the conversation) as part of what makes *fandom* hard on tumblr, but it's kind of obvious now that you pointed it out.
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Date: 2021-06-23 05:57 am (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2021-06-22 04:22 pm (UTC)I like aspects and dislike aspects of all the major ones, and really wish there was a way to AO3-ize a social media site.
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Date: 2021-06-23 05:57 am (UTC)... I'll probably post about that at some point too XD
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Date: 2021-06-22 06:33 pm (UTC)And the communal rather than personal thing... well, okay, I actually entered fandom in the message board days rather than LJ. I did a lot of message board roleplaying, and I still have friends from the Redwall Fan Fiction board back in the day. And that was sort of communal, but you'd also have sub-forums for different types of conversations, and conversations that didn't belong in a specific place could be moved or removed by moderators, making it easier to tailor your experience in that communal space. And it's just impossible to do that on Tumblr or Twitter in any meaningful way.
I think that there's also sort of an entitlement to certain interactions that would make it hard to do the same sort of thing these days; I could see someone pissed off that their thread got locked starting a hate-brigade, and a moderating team just getting flooded with nonsense.
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Date: 2021-06-23 05:59 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2021-06-22 06:37 pm (UTC)I feel like if I want to participate, ESPECIALLY on Twitter and Discord, if I am not right there at the second something happens, it's just... not possible to go back easily to the topic. On Discord, any server will have moved on from the topic you want to talk about, and you will have to go onto 200+ messages just to SEE what they were talking about. On Twitter, you won't see shit in a time-matter and now you have a weird vague tweet for 14 hours ago, another one from 3 hours ago, and then three days latter you will see another tweet from three months ago that actually was the pivot to anything.
Like... that's so tiring. I don't WANT to be engaged in fandom all the time, and when I do, I feel like I got to play catch up with a bunch of bullshit just to see some damn headcanons, and that is IF the algorithm let's me see them in the first place.
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Date: 2021-06-23 06:01 am (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2021-06-22 07:31 pm (UTC)But then, I started wondering a bit. I'm a fandom young, comparatively speaking. I wasn't on LiveJournal, I was late to FFN, and Tumblr, and Ao3. The only forums I've ever been even remotely active on were NaNoWriMo forums. A lot of my resistance to more community-based fandom locations is because of the drama, fighting, and how quickly things can just explode, and when it comes down to it, the unspoken social rules that I worry I might break are a small drop in a very large ocean.
I kind of wonder if that's in part because I've only ever experienced fandom "community" through Tumblr, and social media in general through the major socials, where everything is very out-there and you have to sacrifice interaction for privacy and any misstep is very quickly and harshly punished. IDK, just some thoughts really. Also a possible reason why places like Pillowfort and here tend to be populated with older fans than younger, community's scary when all you know is Tumblr
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Date: 2021-06-23 06:04 am (UTC)For me, tumblr is where I can find the people. Group chats are where I can get to know them and have conversations with them.
Like you say, everything on the modern platforms is public and while drama definitely did happen in the forum and LJ days, it was always more contained than it is now. You might here the rumblings far off or you might be completely unaware, but it wouldn't explode all over your timeline unless you were fairly directly involved with it or were friends with someone who was.
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Date: 2021-06-22 07:43 pm (UTC)But yeah, for me on Tumblr sometimes reblogging things isn't what I like doing because even if I do have somewhat of a tagging system for my blog... it's still kinda showing everyone who follows me the Thing if they haven't blocked a specific tag. That and it's a lot like screaming into the void sometimes. (I'm also realizing maybe on Tumblr I like using tags to ramble because it feels more like whispering to myself than, like, the actual post.)
Twitter ? That thing scares me. It doesn't feel like there's a lot of context to anything on it, you can't have nuance in 240 characters, and I am afraid of posting literally any kind of fanart over there because of this.
(I'm not sure if I'm even on topic at this point i am very tired)
The most sense of community and actually discussing stuff with people online I've had was on a roleplay forum in 2014- I've kept some lifelong friends from back then. There were both the roleplay and longer posts and a real time chat box! It was great. Discord, to an extent, have given me some Actual Discussion Time but only in one or two specific servers.
Honestly ? This is why I decided to join Dreamwidth when you started talking about it because. uh. I wanted to try out actually talking to people for once. Which is something I've barely done in online fandom spaces simply because... there wasn't really a way to, unless my friends are into the same thing. I'm glad I found someone who encourages me on my fanfic endeavors irl, and also likes the elder scrolls and laughs with me about my wacky headcanons. I don't think I've found any place where something like that could happen yet.
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Date: 2021-06-23 06:07 am (UTC)I hope you like it here on dreamwidth. It's a very different kind of space to the major socials. Much slower and quieter which is good for someone like me who needs a bit of asynchronous communication and can't keep up with the pace of things. :) Also, I can't tell you how much I've missed having a place that is mine
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Date: 2021-06-22 07:54 pm (UTC)On ao3, you can kind of get that to work, since you can search for specific combinations of tags (assuming that the work author tagged those things), but other social media sites don't let you search tags in specific combinations. This also can lead to some issues -- let's say you have a favorite character in a fandom, but they're not a fandom favorite. If you go in that character's tag, here's what you're going to find:
1. Posts about the fandom favorite that are tagged with every character tag (you could technically eliminate these by blocking the tag for the fandom favorite, but you usually enjoy posts about this character -- just not, you know, when you're looking for posts about a different character)
2. Pretty pictures, gifsets, incorrect quotes, etc. -- all the stuff that's easy to make and pretty (or not-so-pretty, but you know what I mean) to look at
3. Character analysis, meta, fics, etc. -- the meaty content
If you're in a mood for only meaty content about this character... unless you know someone who's reblogged a lot of that sort of thing and has literally the best and most specific organizational system ever, good luck finding what you're looking for. You'll either be stuck in the character tag scrolling past stuff you don't want to see, or in some other fandom tag (such as meta) scrolling through stuff you don't want to see.
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Date: 2021-06-22 11:03 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2021-06-22 08:03 pm (UTC)Also, it might just be my very personal experience, but people also seem to be nastier on Twitter, if only for the fact that you have very few words to use, and need to be as snappy and concise as possible. Not that Tumblr is much better, but at least it has a bigger character limit. It's also exhausting to be in public mode all the time, knowing that at any point anyone can stumble upon your words, and try to spin some drama out of it.
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Date: 2021-06-23 05:52 am (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2021-06-22 08:34 pm (UTC)Still. Your posts are helping me forgive Tumblrites for being... well. The site they/we are on encourages the worst of fandom, not the best. Doesn't excuse the excesses and abuses, but the worst offenders would either learn to behave or not be able to do as much harm on a more humane platform.
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Date: 2021-06-23 06:26 am (UTC)when I found out that putting the tag #anti-ship or #ship hate would drop your post into the main ship tag? 😬 that's when I decided to either keep my thoughts to myself or not tag them at all
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Date: 2021-06-22 10:04 pm (UTC)The "everything moves too fast," though, I feel that. I always feel like I'm constantly trying to catch up, and it doesn't help that I have to wade through countless tweets I don't care for. At least tumblr tags make for an easy blacklist (this is why I've made it a rule to only follow people who tag consistently over there), but Twitter's muting system is a joke.
I also feel like the character limit on twitter, and the fast pace of those current social media, really impacted the writing of long, thoughtful posts negatively. I used to write long meta and headcanon posts a lot on Tumblr, but I barely do anymore. That's something I've really missed, and want to try doing again.
There are things I do like about those social medias, but I really agree they suck for fandoms.
Fanexus seems promising, as it looks like it'll combine the best parts of each, but it's still in beta, and I'm afraid it won't really take. I would love for fandoms to move to a dedicated site.
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Date: 2021-06-23 05:04 am (UTC)But I hate tumblr as a community space for fandom! I only use it to look at pretty gif sets, and when there’s discourse it all seems so exhausting to try and navigate. Actual conversations are challenging in that space.
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Date: 2021-06-23 12:22 pm (UTC)I miss the Good Old Days of LJ when it was possible to maintain a conversation over the course of several days without losing it in the general flow of balderdash. But then I occasionally miss usenet, too, because I am a Fandom Old.
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Date: 2021-06-23 12:57 pm (UTC)Just a random thought on the fandom spaces thing: I like to think where most of us are is at the online equivalent of a table at a foodcourt. Some conversations, even in public, are really only meant for just the ones at that table, but because we are in a public space, strangers can overhear what we say and join in, whether we want to or not. Which is a bit of a bummer when things are misunderstood due to lack of context because the context is on the other side of the court, or not even in that same mall. And in those instances, I at least have wished we could opt for a more private booth with the curtains drawn.
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Date: 2021-06-23 10:32 pm (UTC)Ramble-y Thoughts
Date: 2021-06-24 01:34 am (UTC)My first fandom community was on FFN way back when I was 11 or 12, where I befriended a few people through replying to their reviews and talking about all sorts of things. I spent more time sending PMs than I did reading fics. Even though we don't talk anymore, these people stayed in contact with me for years. We were around the same age, and we interacted with each other's stories regularly. Only when I started uni that I became too busy to talk as often. Most of these people are no longer on FFN, and some of them might have changed and we might not get along anymore. But it was a fun time back then.
Tumblr feel so....different from that. I'm starting to think that my feelings of low self-esteem were because I missed that feeling of having friends in fandom. My writing has improved, but I'm not as happy.(AO3 only began to feel weird when people started adding stuff like "if you ship X/Y gtfo" and "in this house we stan/hate X" in additional tags. Idk, it just makes me feel weird.)
I have some people on tumblr who interact with my posts about OCs and my writing, with reblogs and reactions in tags and all, but sometimes I just post when they're not online, and who knows if they'll ever see it. Self-reblogging feel....sad lol. And I can't just message them and ramble because the message box thing is so small and annoying on desktop, and rambling in reblogs is just me constantly throwing rambles on people's dashboards (One time I rambled with someone about my OCs, and they rambled about their OCs, and it was a very long post.)
And the Wank™. Boy oh boy, I've lost interest in so many fandoms because of the widespread hate towards certain characters on basis of applying morality to fiction, which we all know is the only valid way of interacting with fiction, because fiction affects reality and stanning a 'literal abuser' is way worse than taking the side of his son who is a murderer in canon. /s (I'm never gonna stop being super salty about the BNHA fandom. Like, I get if you (general you) don't like the character, but let others do their thing????) Not to mention how interacting with other people who share your views isn't a guarantee that you won't somehow find yourself dragged into discourse, because like you said, posts are public.
(I mean, I guess I can thank fanpol for motivating me to create my own original content. Can't have fanpol if what you write has no fandom. Problem solved! :D)
That being said, most of my social media experience is on tumblr. I don't have a lot of interest in social media.
Am I still even on topic? My brain is thinking of too many things at once.
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Date: 2021-07-03 01:23 pm (UTC)(Also, the idea that "if you have something to say you should put it in the tags, and wait for someone else to excavate it out and share a screenshot, potentially without your name attached" is SO TOXIC. I don't know who came up with this or why so many people accepted that posting your own thoughts on a reblog is arrogant or out-of-touch, but just thinking about it gives me the heebie-jeebies. And yet I tend to confine myself to the tags anyway, because I don't want people to point and laugh at my self-assurance.)
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Date: 2021-07-06 03:47 am (UTC)It's such a marketing thing that I always have a bit of a flinch reaction. The impression I get is that their fic is a product, and their name is a brand, and the brand must deliver a promised product and only the promised product with no surprises - on pain of being sued for breach of contract.
On a personal level I hate it because no, if I like five of your fics I would love to be able to find the rest! Why hide them? It's not as though nobody in the world could possibly enjoy both gen and romance, or casefic and curtainfic; the fact that you're writing all of it is pretty much proof that people can like all of it, right?
On an emotional level I hate it because no, that's not what fandom is supposed to be about; this is a hobby, not a job, and a friend group, not a networking event. You haven't promised anybody anything; if you want to write tentacle porn one week and modern-AU fluff next week, you should! How can you make friends and enjoy your hobby if you're carefully slicing yourself into market segments and pretending to be three different people with singular interests? How can you keep friendships if every time you find a new interest you vanish from the old one?
I see this on smaller scales, too: a couple weeks ago I saw someone say they had deleted a fic a couple months after posting it because it hadn't 'done well' and that was obviously embarrassing. D: I couldn't help but think, a couple months? But what if the fan who would have loved that fic is someone who won't get into this fandom for another five years?
There have been so many fandoms where I was late to the party; sometimes by a couple of years (Nirvana in Fire!) and sometimes by decades (Starsky & Hutch)! The idea that a fic has to 'do well' to justify its existence is strange enough to me, but the idea that a couple of months is a sufficient window for a fanwork to be judged by is unfathomable. Yet this seems to be How People Do Fandom on large social media sites now, whether it's a fic or a whole persona being assessed.
I don't get it, and probably never will.
(While I'm at it, I'd also like to register my PROFOUND disapproval for sites that don't provide timestamps! Why is this a thing. Whom do I shout at to make it stop.) D:
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Date: 2021-07-06 01:11 pm (UTC)Like, I'll be reading a fic on AO3, and the end author note will say "Twitter saw it first!" because building engagement/followers is so important...? I don't remember seeing that kind of things before, it feels different than just dropping a link to your blog so people can chat with you.
Or something else that keeps making me go "this isn't my experience of fandom" is people circulating the first few pages of awesome fanart/comics they write, and at the end explain how you can buy the rest because it won't be shared on social media.
And I understand people need to make a living and capitalism is so tough on people, but this is so foreign to my experience of fandom. This isn't what I come here to do. And I don't know if it's something new or if it was always there and it's just accelerating now. I think maybe people always sold merch and fanzines and fanart at conventions? I do remember buying postcards with cool fanart. But I don't remember that exhausting marketing push at the time. Maybe I'm just more tired nowadays...??
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